It is zero hangovers and zero alcohol-induced poor decisions; zero alcohol-induced unwanted outcomes. It is zero damage to my body, mind, and spirit. It is zero loss of my physical, mental and emotional energy. It is zero deadening of my senses; zero numbing...
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If we look back over the course of human existence, we’re only meant to have around 100 to 150 friends in our lives and the impact of FB is that it causes overload. The more friends we have online and the more deeply we care, the more overwhelmed we feel. In...
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“There is no power in blame.” -Author Unknown “How can I blame the wind for the mess it made, if it was me who opened the window?!” -Author unknown “He who blames others has a long way to go on his journey. He who blames himself is halfway there....
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Behavior-based goals can move you forward quite a lot, but they’re conditional. They’re contingent upon changed behavior. Changed behavior is not always a solid foundation given human nature. Feeling-based goals, on the other hand, can be based on a strong...
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You can make choices, but you cannot choose outcomes. Outcome-based thinking, like expectations, leads to disappointments and resentments, and sometimes traumatic heartbreak and heartache. Acceptance, though a tall order, is the answer. It is simple, but it...
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Nikola Rosa is an artistic rendering of the soul that has come to exist after rising from the ashes. Her thoughts are from Nancy Gass, and yet they are in some ways, a different person entirely. We all have hearts and souls that are a deep ocean of complexity and this dichotomy is no different.